Atrocity of Love

 

I gave myself another shot at love, or so i thought.

I am Eve, a happy, hard working, single mom of one, two, three boys/girls. I am a woman, a nurse, lawyer, businesswoman, medical representative and most specially I’m a proud Mother. A year ago, never did I lose hope of finding a partner, but I didn’t expect it was that hard either. I scavenged all possible ways, trust me, and i found myself one night scrolling my account in Tinder. Yes, that was where I met Milo.

Myles Tan to be specific. We met when my world was in chaos, couldn’t get a grip in life. woke up every 4am to prepare lunch for my kids, work at 0700, home at 1700, get to sleep at 2300. Things I couldn’t imagine myself doing when I was still young. Dating ( I meant going-out-to-actually-dine-and-know-someone) for me was a luxury I couldn’t afford. Hence, the awkward, risky decision to join online dating.

Myles is everything a woman could only wish for. He courted me, made me feel I was the most important person. Just when I needed it, really. It sort of felt like he’s a God-given gift. That despite the gruesome, horriffying shift at work, the endless yells from my kids at home, my personal battle of insecurity and vulnerability– i found a treasure. I saw solace in his eyes, sincerity that tels me, “Dont worry, I will look after you now.’ We held hands while walking in the mall, kissed and hugged in public. I thought to myelf, what have I done to deserve him? It was a bliss.

We had family outing, he seem to get along very well with my kids. Truly, I candidly thought he could be the father i longed for them. Days went to weeks, weeks to months, months to a year…

He started asking for an allowance, extra money for work, money to start a business. Of course, I gave everything.. until nothing was left. He cheated, played, and wrecked my life thereafter.

Little did I know, he has been doing this for years. I have met and talked to other 15-20 women whom he had ‘relationship’ with. Same as I, they were robbed– seriously robbed. Bags, jewelries, money– name it. And he dumps them, telling them they were nothing but a rejected woman with an excess baggage. Incredibly the same as what I’ve been personally told by him. In great disbelief, I investigated deeper. He has a case of Bigamy and Theft, a CIDG officer revelead( not to mention cases of violence against women and estafa) Apparently, he looks for vulnerable women, (e.g single mothers, separated, matured) those people who only wants to be accepted and looked at by some sincere bloke despite their past. He asks you to live with him in one roof to prove his sincerity, then robs you. OR, randomly cry (yes, he cries like an idiot who bloody owns Manila waters) asking you to help him as he quit his job. Needless to say, how can you stay in one company, paying you so little while he can get double or triple from those moms. That’s his forte, he uses kids– whether its his or yours thus capturing that sensitive part of your soul plus a truckload of sweet-talks. And once you’re out of money, he jumps out to another mommy.This person is really a professional gold digger, sick, psycho, pathological liar. Anything he will do just to get money out from you.

I am full of anger, of remorse, of ideas wanting to get even. Why me? Havent I loved you enough? I wanted to keep mum, it is indeed shameful na NAGPAKATANGA KA SA PAGIBIG. But if I do nothing , who will? If a girl conceded about him to the police 10 years ago, she could have saved 10 brave deserving women. So, I am stepping up.

This is a plea to stop Myles — a delirious, manipulative, deeply evil, professional gold digging shitbag of a man ever created. And also to empower single women to be vigilant, single, married, annulled , seperated, with or without kids, young or old……  Be very cautious of who you give your hearts to.

I am not only his victim, it could be you, a friend, your sister, cousin, a relative or that woman that sits next to you in church praying so hard, thanking Him for giving her a chance at love. IT HAS TO STOP! HE HAS TO STOP!

He is still currently on the loose, has definitely changed his name, searching for more and more vulnerable victims in all social medias and online dating sites.

Tell your friends about Myles Uy Tan, warn them, please SHARE and LIKE….

At present this man is still active on different dating site (Tinder,Tagged and others) using all sorts of aliases and nick, targeting women and profiling their financial capability.

This is a true story……..  Don’t be a victim.